Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Lowering the gaze

Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly: 
Lowering the gaze (ghadd al-basr) means restraining the gaze and not allowing it to wander or dwell upon anything. 
Ibn Faaris said in Mu’jam Maqaayees al-Lughah (4/307): 
Ghayn and daad indicate restraining, as in the phrase ghadd al-basr (lowering the gaze)… End quote.  
Ibn al-Manzoor said in Lisaan al-‘Arab (7/196): 
Lowering the gaze (ghadd al-basr) means restraining it. End quote. 
Secondly: 
In Islamic terminology it refers to a number of things: 
1 – Refraining from looking at people’s ‘awrahs, which includes the beauty of a non-mahram woman. 
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (15/414): 
Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted, has enjoined us in His Book to lower the gaze, which is of two types: refraining from looking at ‘awrahs and refraining from looking at the site of desire. 
The former refers to a man refraining from looking at the ‘awrah of another person. 
The second refers to looking at uncovered parts of a non-mahram woman. This is more serious than the former, just as alcohol is more serious than dead meat and blood and pork, and the hadd punishment should be carried out on the one who drinks it, because these haraam things are not as desirable as alcohol may be.


2 – Refraining from looking into people’s houses and things that are behind closed doors 
Ibn Taymiyah says in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (15/379): 
Just as lowering the gaze includes not looking at the ‘awrahs of other people and other haraam things, it also includes refraining from looking into people’s houses. A man’s house conceals his body just as his garments conceal him. Allaah has mentioned lowering the gaze and guarding one’s private parts after the verse about asking for permission to enter, because the house covers a person just as the clothes on his body do. End quote. 
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Madaarij al-Saalikeen (1/117): 
Haraam kinds of looking include looking at ‘awrahs, which is of two types: the ‘awrah behind a garment and the ‘awrah behind doors. End quote. 
3 – Refraining from looking at what people have of wealth, wives, children, worldly goods and so on. 
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“Look not with your eyes ambitiously at what We have bestowed on certain classes of them (the disbelievers), nor grieve over them. And lower your wings for the believers (be courteous to the fellow‑believers)”
[al-Hijr 15:88] 
Ibn Sa’di said in his Tafseer (434): 
i.e., do not admire them in such a way that you will distracted with desire for the worldly pleasures enjoyed by those who live in luxury and by which the ignorant are deceived. You should be content with that which Allaah has given you of the seven oft-repeated verses and the Holy Qur’aan (cf. al-Hijr 15:87). End quote. 
He also said (p. 516): 
i.e., do not be impressed and do not look repeatedly admiring worldly pleasures and those who are enjoying them, such as delicious food and drink, fine clothing, beautiful houses and adorned women, for all of that is the adornment of this world in which those who are deceived rejoice. And those who do wrong enjoy it by ignoring the Hereafter. But it will all soon end and cease to be, and those who love it will die, then they will regret when regret will be to no avail, and they will realize the state they are in when the Resurrection begins. Allaah has made it a test and a trial, so that it may be known who will be deceived by it and who will be better in deeds. End quote. 
Thirdly: 
The scholars have mentioned many benefits of lowering the gaze, including the following: 
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in al-Jawaab al-Kaafi (125):
There are a number of benefits in lowering the gaze: 
1 – It is obedience to the command of Allaah, which brings happiness to man in this world and in the next. There is nothing more beneficial to a person in this world and in the next than obeying the commands of his Lord, may He be blessed and exalted, and those who are happy in this world and the next can only attain that happiness by obeying His commands, and those who are doomed in this world and in the next are only doomed because they ignore His commands.
 2 – It prevents the poisoned arrows (of the shaytaan), which may lead to his doom, from reaching his heart. 
3 – It creates a heart that is devoted to and focused on Allaah. Letting the gaze wander distracts the heart and keeps it far from Allaah. There is nothing more harmful to a person than letting his gaze wander, as it creates alienation between a person and his Lord. 
4 – It strengthens the heart and brings it peace, just as letting the gaze wander weakens it and makes it sad. 
5 – It brings light to the heart, just as letting the gaze wander brings darkness to it. Hence Allaah mentioned the verse of light immediately after the command to lower the gaze, as He says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts…”
[al-Noor 24:30] 
Then straight after that He says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“Allaah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The parable of His Light is as (if there were) a niche and within it a lamp”
[al-Noor 24:35] 
i.e., the likeness of His light in the heart of His believing slave who obeys His commands and heeds His prohibitions. If the heart is enlightened blessings will come to it from all sides, but if it is darkened, calamity and evil will come to it from all places. Whatever exists of innovation, misguidance, following whims and desires, avoiding true guidance and turning away from the means of happiness and focusing on the means that lead to doom, that will be recognizable by means of the light that is in the heart. If that light is lost then one will left like a blind man stumbling in the darkness. 
6 – It generates true insight which can distinguish between truth and falsehood, sincerity and lies. Allaah rewards His slave for his good deeds with something similar and if he gives up something for the sake of Allaah, He will compensate him with something better than it. So if he lowers his gaze and refrains from looking at things that Allaah has forbidden, Allaah will compensate him with enlightenment; he will compensate him for restraining his gaze for the sake of Allaah, and will open to him the doors of knowledge, faith and true insight which he only attained by means of the light in his heart. The opposite of that is the blindness which Allaah attributed to the homosexuals, which is the opposite of insight. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):  
“Verily, by your life (O Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), in their wild intoxication, they were wandering blindly”
[al-Hijr 15:72] 
7 – It creates a heart that is steadfast, brave and strong. Allaah will give him both insight and power and strength, as it says in the report: “The one who goes against his whims and desires, the shaytaan flees from his shadow.”  
On the other hand, the one who follows his whims and desires will feel a sense of humiliation, indignity, worthlessness and insignificance, which is the punishment which Allaah has decreed for those who disobey Him as al-Hasan said: “Even if they ride the finest of mounts, the effect of sin will never depart from them. Allaah insists that the one who disobeys Him will be humiliated.” 
Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted, has connected strength to obedience to Him, and humiliation to disobedience to Him. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“But honour, power and glory belong to Allaah, and to His Messenger (Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and to the believers”
[al-Munaafiqoon 63:8] 
“So do not become weak (against your enemy), nor be sad, and you will be superior (in victory) if you are indeed (true) believers”
[Aal ‘Imraan 3:139]. 
Faith is both words and deeds, inward and outward. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“Whosoever desires honour, power and glory then to Allaah belong all honour, power and glory [and one can get honour, power and glory only by obeying and worshipping Allaah (Alone)]. To Him ascend (all) the goodly words, and the righteous deeds exalt it (i.e. the goodly words are not accepted by Allaah unless and until they are followed by good deeds)”
[Faatir 35:10] 
i.e., whoever desires power, let him seek it by means of obedience to Allaah and remembrance of Him, by speaking good words and doing good deeds. In Du’aa’ al-Qunoot it says: “he is not humiliated whom You have befriended, nor is he honoured who You take as an enemy”. Whoever obeys Allaah is His friend in as much as he obeys Him, and he will have support and honour from Him commensurate with his obedience towards Him. Whoever disobeys Him is His enemy in as much as he disobeys Him, and he will have humiliation from Him commensurate with his disobedience towards Him. 
8 – It blocks the shaytaan from a means of entering his heart, for he may enter with looking, and penetrate the heart faster than the wind blowing through an empty space, and he may present to him the image that he looked at and make it attractive, like an idol to which his heart becomes devoted, then he encourages him and gives him hopes, and fans the flames of desire in his heart, adding the fuel of sin which could not have reached his heart without looking at that image. So his heart becomes inflamed and surrounded with fire on all sides, resulting in infatuation and frustration, and he is in the midst of it like a lamb in the oven. Hence the punishment for those whose desires were fuelled by haraam looking is that in al-Barzakh they are placed in an oven of fire. 
9 – It distracts one from thinking of what is in one’s best interests, so his affairs become neglected and he follows his whims and desires and neglects to remember his Lord. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“and let not your eyes overlook them, desiring the pomp and glitter of the life of the world; and obey not him whose heart We have made heedless of Our remembrance, and who follows his own lusts, and whose affair (deeds) has been lost”
[al-Kahf 18:28] 
10 – Between the eyes and the heart there is a connection which means that the one is affected by the other, and if one of them becomes good, the other will also become good, and if one becomes corrupt the other will become corrupt. If the heart becomes corrupt the gaze will become corrupt, and if the gaze become corrupt the heart will become corrupt, and similarly if one is sound the other will also be sound. End quote. 
And Allaah knows best.

Ref: http://islamqa.com/en/ref/islamqa/85622/print

Monday, November 28, 2011

THE REWARD OF TAKING CARE OF THE WIDOWS AND THE ORPHANS




The believers are protectors of one and other. So when we find those in need, such as the orphans and the widows, we should strive to help them. Below is are some reminders of the rewards for doing so.

"And they feed, for the love of Allah, the poor, the orphan, and the captive..." [Soorah al-Insaan, 8]

When a little girl cries halfway around the world, are her tears any less real? Would you like to be like a Mujaahid or like those who spend their days fasting and their nights praying?

"One who cares for widows and the poor is like those who fight in the way of Allah or those who spend their days fasting and their nights praying." [Agreed upon, also in Adab al-Mufrad of Imaam Al-Bukhari in chapter "The Virtue of Those Who Care for Orphans"]

Would you like Allah Subhanahuwata`alaa to remove one of your griefs on the Day of Judgment?

"Whoever removes a worldly grief from a believer, Allah will remove from him one of the griefs of the Day of Judgment" [Saheeh Muslim]

Would you like forgiveness and bounty from Allah subhanahuwata`ala?

"The Shaitan promises you poverty and enjoins you on lewdness. But Allah promises you forgiveness from Himself with bounty. And Allah is All-Sufficient for His creatures' needs, All-Knower." [Soorah al-Baqarah, 268]

Would you like to be in the eternal Jannah with our beloved Prophet and the best of creation, sallallaahu`alaihiwasallam?

"I and the caretaker of the orphan will enter Paradise together like this, raising (by way of illustration) his forefinger and middle finger jointly, leaving no space in between." [Saheeh al-Bukhaari]

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Sponsoring an orphan means taking care of his religious and worldly interests, teaching him and guiding him etc with regard to religious matters, and taking care of his food, drink, shelter and other worldly concerns. [Sharh Riyaadh al-Saaliheen, 5/113]

Aqeedah of TNTJ/PJ


PJ தவறுகள் சில

1. அல்லாஹ் மேகத்தில் வருவான் என்பதற்கு அல்லாஹ்வின் தண்டனை வரும் என்று விளக்கம் கொடுத்துள்ளார்.

2. ஹாரூத் மாரூத் மலக்குகள் அல்ல. ஷைத்தான்கள் என்று எழுதியுள்ளார்.

3. ஸாத் அத்தியாயத்தில் 34 வது வசனத்தில் அவரது சிம்மாசனத்தில் ஒரு முண்டத்தைப் போட்டோம் என்று மொழிபெயர்க்காமல் அவரை ஒரு சடலமாகப் போட்டோம் என்று எழுதியுள்ளார். சுலைமான் நபி ஒரு இரவில் நூறு மனைவியருடன் உடலுறவு கொண்டதாக வரும் ஹதீஸ்களை மறுத்துள்ளார்.

4. ரசூல், நபி என்பதற்கிடையே எந்த வேறுபாடும் இல்லை என்று எழுதியுள்ளார்.

5. ஆதம்(அலை) அவர்கள் சொர்க்கத்திலிருந்து வெளியேற்றப்பட்டார்கள் என்று எழுதாமல் ஒரு தோட்டத்திலிருந்து வெளியேற்றப்பட்டார்கள் என்று எழுதியுள்ளார்.

6. சிஹ்ர் - சூனியம் என்பது கற்பனை என்கிறார்.

7. நபிகள் நாயகத்துக்கு சூனியம் செய்யப்பட்டதாக புகாரியில் இடம் பெற்ற ஹதீஸை மறுக்கிறார்.

8. நம்பகமானவர்கள் வழியாக அறிவிக்கப்படும் ஹதீஸ்கள் குர்ஆனுக்கு முரணாக இருந்தால் அதை மறுக்க வேண்டும் என்கிறார். இத்தகைய ஹதீஸ்கள் சுமார் 50 உள்ளன எனக் கூறுகிறார்.

9. பத்து தடவை பாலூட்டினால் தான் தாய் பிள்ளை உறவு ஏற்படும் என்று நபிகள் நாயகம் மரணிக்கும் வரை குர்ஆனில் ஒரு வசனம் இருந்தது என்று ஆயிஷா (ரலி) அறிவிக்கும் ஹதீஸையும் இவர் மறுக்கிறார்.

10. ஸாலிம் என்ற இளைஞருக்கு பாலூட்டு அவர் உன் பிள்ளையாகி விடுவார் என்று ஹுதைபா (ரலி) அவர்களின் மனைவியிடம் நபிகள் நாயகம் (ஸல்) கூறியதாக வரும் ஹதீஸையும் இவர் மறுக்கிறார்.

11. முடிச்சுக்களில் ஊதும் பெண்கள் என்பது சூனியக்காரர்களைக் குறிக்காது. ஷைத்தானையே குறிக்கும் என்று எழுதியுள்ளார்.

12. பெண்கள் முகத்தை மறைக்க எந்த ஆதாரமும் இல்லை என்கிறார். இதனால் ஒழுக்கக் கேடுகள் தான் ஏற்படும் என்கிறார்.

13. குர்ஆனை எடுத்து எழுதிய நபித் தோழர்கள் சில எழுத்துப் பிழைகளை விட்டுள்ளனர். அது அப்படியே உள்ளது எனக் கூறி சில ஆதாரங்களையும் கூறுகிறார்.

14. குர்ஆனின் ஓரத்தில் ஸஜ்தா என்றும் மற்றும் சில வார்த்தைகளும் பின்னால் எழுதப்பட்ட பித்அத் என்று கூறி இவ்வாறு செய்தவர்களைக் கண்டிக்கிறார்.

15. நிச்சயமாக என்பதை அறவே தவிர்த்து விட்டார்.

இவரது திருக்குர்ஆன் தமிழாக்கத்தில் நாங்கள் கண்ட தவறுகள் இவை. இவை தவிர அவரது உரைகளிலும், நூல்களிலும் இன்னும் பல தவறுகளைச் செய்துள்ளார். உதாரணத்துக்காக சில. இவை மட்டுமல்லாமல் இன்னும் உள்ளன.

1. இறைவன் முதல் வானத்திற்கு இறங்குகிறான் என்பதற்கு நேரடிப் பொருள் செய்யவில்லை.

2. இஜ்மாவையும், கியாஸையும் அறவே மறுக்கிறார்.

3. சலபிக் கொள்கையை மறுத்து கிண்டல் செய்கிறார். அவர்கள் தக்லீது செய்பவர்கள் என்கிறார்.

4. மனித உடலுக்குள் ஜின்கள் நுழைவதையும் இவர் மறுக்கிறார்.

5. நபிகள் நாயகம் (ஸல்) மரணித்த பின் அவர்களை யாரும் கனவில் காண முடியாது என்கிறார்.

6. பலவீனமான ஹதீஸ்கள் துணைச் சான்றுகள் மூலம் சரியான ஹதீஸ் என்ற நிலைக்கு உயரும் என்பதையும் மறுக்கிறார்.

7. தாடியைக் கத்தரிக்க எந்த அளவும் நிர்ணயிக்கப்படவில்லை என்கிறார்.

8. ஆடைகளைத் தரையில் இழுபடும்படி தொங்க விடுவதால் தவறல்ல என்கிறார்.

9. ஒரு பொருளுக்கு ஒரு தடவை தான் ஜகாத் என்கிறார். ஒரு தடவை ஜகாத் கொடுக்கப்பட்ட பொருளுக்கு மீண்டும் ஜகாத் இல்லை என்கிறார்.

10. ஜும்ஆவுக்கு முன் சுன்னத் உண்டு என்கிறார்.

11. குழந்தையாக இருந்த போது நபிகள் நாயகத்தின் இதயம் பிளக்கப்பட்டதை மறுக்கிறார். அது குர்ஆனுக்கு முரண் என்கிறார்.

தொகுப்பு:
முகம்மது ஜக்கி  , முபாரக் மதினி ,முகம்மது நூஹ்
தம்மாம் ஜாலியாத்,
சவூதி அரேபியா
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Sunday, November 27, 2011

My Dearest Husband


My Dearest Husband 


When I forget,  Please remind me...
When I do a sin, Tell me to repent...
When I fear, Tell me there is hope...
When I cry over my sins,Tel me to bear...
When I slip, Pull me up...
When I have hardship,Remind of my test...
When U love me,Don't love me for me...

♥ I'm Nothing, But a Servant of
ALLAH... So Love Me for HIS Sake ♥

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The Power of the Du'a of the Oppressed

بِسۡمِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحۡمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ  The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ once said: "Fear the supplication of the oppressed, for there is no b...